Wednesday, December 26, 2018

THE CHRISTMAS CAROLING PARTY LAST NIGHT WAS THE BEST

I was invited to the home of a couple who are instrumental in a local Christian church last night to attend a tradition of theirs - Christmas carol singing in the home.  I took my dog with me.  After we had both eaten plenty from the great variety of foods offered  - including a tasty Russian meat strudel and the home made Mexican enchiladas  a guest brought with onions not too raw - not too cooked - and a hunters stew, and had one glass of wine, we gathered in the living room.  My host played the piano.  Also there, a young man - a violinist, a guitar player,  and small percussion instruments such as bells, rattles, and tambourines were passed around. 

We must have sung fifteen songs, happy to have the lyric sheets in hand.  We got inventive.  One man made the sounds of cows, donkeys, and sheep, for the song Do You Hear What I Hear.  We sang one song that was a German carol I had never heard before, alternating between English and German phrases with violin solos between stanzas.  We finished with the Twelve Days of Christmas - those "five golden rings" brought out the operatic and dramatic.  My dog fell asleep under a table despite all the kids swirling around and the clamor. 

Oh I hated to go.

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Happy Holidays to all my readers, who I feel sure, will have their decorations up until January 6th. 

Saturday, December 15, 2018

A FEW OF MY FAVORITE THINGS - THIS TIME THIS YEAR

The song by that title my mom loved and I remember her singing it around the house. I almost put a YouTube video up of the song being sung by one of my dad's favorite artists.  But I am opposed to forcing my readers into having to watch or listen to a commercial first.

A few of my favorite things at this time of year?

I have memories of visiting people and indulging in their cookies - so many different ethnic recipes - so many different spices.  Including anise in sugar cookies, glazed with simple powder sugar and vanilla. Never brownies, no chocolaty chip, but a lot of jellies, powdered sugars, almonds, walnuts and poppy seeds.

One of my aunts made a poppy seed roll that was so fresh smelling and tasting, it was impossible to eat just one piece.  Another made a particular date cookie with a creamy icing in pastels.

Candy - Jordan almonds and those raspberry-tac filled with a little liquid.

Our stockings were never full of toys or money.

The discovery of a quarter, a box  of Jello, an orange, some candy canes, or other small items in an actual knee sock  I wore - was enough to please and surprise - since it was left by Santa.  Who sometimes ate a cookie and drank his milk - and sometimes did not.

The local news channels ended 6 PM news with checking the radar for Santa's sleigh and it seems that was enough excuse to go to bed early.

Sometimes it snowed.  Sometimes it didn't. We never went out looking for sleigh, reindeer footprints, or elf or Santa footprints.  Knowing - not knowing - it didn't seem to matter - because it was simple faith.

For the last couple decades I have not put up an actual Christmas tree.  I used to collect ornaments and have collections.  I sold one collection a long time ago.  I put out an antique bowl full of ornaments as a centerpiece at the table. I'm fond of candles and the small lights sometimes called fairy lights. I like to have a few branches of actual pine tree so the rooms smell a little of pine.



Tuesday, November 20, 2018

MEDITATION on the MIGRANT CARAVANS HEADING TO THE UNITED STATES

I've been reading around the MIGRANT CARAVAN, specifically the plight of Hondurans who say they cannot continue to survive in that Country and the thousands of people headed for the border of the United States.  There are so very many thousands heading this way that I have to pause and think they should too.  In fact I think the migrants should take Mexico up on it's offers to provide for now.

1) The reason why they are heading to Tijuana is that they want into CALIFORNIA, a sanctuary state.  Not Texas or Arizona.

2) There are thousands of homeless who need HELP FIRST here in the United States.

3) Spanish speaking immigrants in California no doubt tend to have their own culture and their own economic interplay. There are many jobs that require applicants to speak both Spanish and English but overall if you are a Spanish only speaking immigrant, you're going to have a more difficult time making a living wage.

4) California is too expensive to make less than a living wage.  This is not a good place to start off on minimum wage or cash jobs. 

5) Those who brought evidence such as news articles or photos that prove that they are or have been living in danger in Honduras have a chance.  So do the LGTB migrants.

6) Don't do something stupid like climb the wall or get involved in violent actions. Really, this is the time to basically WAIT and the WAITING is going to be a long time. What to do besides eat and sleep? I think read.  Read the news.  Read about legal immigration.  Read about the history and government of Mexico and the United States.

7) That the caravans were organized to protect the majority who travel together - I get it.

8) When my ancestors came to America from Europe they did so legally at the time.
    Hungarians who did not process citizenship before World War I had their process stalled.     They were one of the ethnic groups now considered to be suspicious.

9) If a person has a family or friend willing to support and sponsor them, give them a chance.  This is how it was done in the past. For instance, people on steam ships had to say where they were going and who they were going to live with. Some of them carried the letters they received making these offers with them. 

10) An old friend once told me that "Mexico is not a poor country."  Overall I think it would be easier to adjust to Mexico's culture than the United States. 

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Friday, November 2, 2018

BOAT SHAPED FACE CARVED HEADSTONES of SZATMARCSEKE CALVINIST CEMETERY

ATLAS OBSCURA - SZATMARCSEKE- CALVINIST CEMETERY

EXCERPT: Before a local dies, he or she picks a tree that will one day be felled to form his or her own marker. The residents also leave specific instructions with their chosen woodworker. The boat-shaped pieces of wood must meet a strict set of criteria: They must be made of oak, be between about five feet and 6.5 feet high, and face west.
Some of the oldest boat markers are located in a separate area which was once reserved for Romani Hungarians and the victims of suicide. The cemetery also contains the marble tombs of the Kölcsey family, including that of Ferenc Kölcsey, a Hungarian poet and politician who wrote the country’s national anthem and died in the village in 1838.
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Go to the site to see these strange boat shaped images.

Saturday, October 27, 2018

TEMETNI TUDUNK : HOW TO BURY PEOPLE THAT'S ONE THING WE KNOW : HUNGARIAN STEREOTYPES


 

THE MAN WHO LOVED ONLY NUMBERS by PAUL HOFFMAN : BOOK EXCERPT

pages 62-63

"Death and tragedy have long been part of the Hungarian character.  According to the historian John Lukacs, on All Soul's Day in Erdos's youth, "thousands of people steamed toward the cemeteries of Budapest, with flowers in their hands, on that holy day which is perhaps taken more seriously in Hungary than anywhere else because of the national temperament.  Temetni tudunk - a terse Magyar phrase whose translation requires as many as ten English words to give its proper (and even then, not wholly exact) sense: 'How to bury people - that is one thing we know.'" The phrase was coined long before Hungary had experienced the devastation of the two world wars, whose carnage would come disproportionately from within its borders.

Few countries have had as violent a history as Hungary.  In the ninth century, nomadic Magyar warriors from the steppes of Easter Europe crossed the Carpathian mountains, and renouncing their peripatetic way of life, settled in the middle Danube basin at the heart of what is now Hungary.  The Magyars, also known as the On-Ogurs ("people of the ten arrows"), were skilled archers and javelin throwers who raided their neighbors, plundering Germany from Bavaria to Saxony.  Recent converts to Christianity, the Magyars had to defend their own new territory against a series of invaders.  They held their own until 1241, when several hundred thousand Mongol horseman from Genghis Khan's empire slaughtered half the Magyar population and enslaved much of the rest, a bloodbath from which the country barely recovered "


The problem with Hungary," Erdos once joked, reflecting on his country's history, "is that in every war we choose the wrong side."

Friday, October 5, 2018

Saturday, September 29, 2018

THE MAN WHO LOVED ONLY NUMBERS by PAUL HOFFMAN :BOOK EXCERPT

PAUL ERDO'S is the Hungarian Mathematician ...   Page 127
In February 1949, Erdos slipped out of Hungary.  For the next three years he went back and forth between England and the United States before landing a flexible deal at the University of Notre Dame in 1952.  He had to teach only one class and was assigned an assistant who could take over ton the spur of the moment should he have the rge to rush off and finish a proof with a collaborator.  Although Erdos rejected organized religion, he didn't mind teaching at a Catholic school.  "The only thing that bothered me," he joked, "was that there were too many plus signs."  (i.e. the crucifix.)

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Saturday, September 22, 2018

LIBRI REGII - ROYAL BOOKS - HUNGARICANA - TRANSLATION AND COMMENTARY IN ENGLISH

Contrary to popular notions that people who are into genealogy are snobs just trying to raise their status by proving royal or noble blood flows in their veins, there is another explanation for this fever.  Basically, ancestors who were wealthy, noble, or notable in history (not always the same!) have more documentation in general. So if you link to such a person you often can go further back in your research.  Populations were so much smaller then, there is a greater chance you can link to many others by correctly linking to one. Since nobles tended to marry nobles, linking to one correctly can open your research.

Searching in HUNGARICANA for surnames, I printed out the five pages of information that the translation option offered from Hungarian to English.  Reading it, my head started spinning.  It seemed so awkwardly worded and repetitive.

HERE IS WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW, as edited and commented upon and enhanced with information by me!

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The LIBRI REGII (Latin for Books Royal, Royal Books, or the King's Books) that are currently in the custody of the Hungarian National Archives, were copied originally by The Royal Chancellery.  Recorded were the major documents issued by the King /in the name of the King.  They record the "grace" of the King, the favors or grants in which he gave permanent rights and privileges to a person or family. (They may also record the "grace" of the Queen, as Ruler.  And permanent was the intention though history proves otherwise.) The subject of each written "diploma" (think award certification) or official grant can be property, real estate, the titles - such as noble title and rank, the right to hold fairs (usually for the purpose of sales/marketing rather than entertainment), the right for a person to tax a village or town or expect duty to be paid to them by serfs / tenants / merchants, as well as privileges involving the trade guilds.  In some cases the document is a deprivation or withdraw, a reduction or loss of these things.

Included in the Books are a large number of documents for business such as licenses granted, industrial or commercial patents, Royal Declarations that required legal/civil actions such as real estate sales and purchases, gifts, endorsements, the adoption of children, as well as testimonials and decisions on parenting.  (This may seem to be too small and personal a subject for a King or Queen to be involved with.  Consider that diseases were equal opportunity and didn't just kill off peasants; there were orphans who were nobles and who raised them, just as who married them, could be considered the business of the King since it also influenced inheritance rights.)

THE PROBLEMS WITH THE COLLECTION ARE AS FOLLOWS:

-The chronological order isn't strict.

-Pre 1526, the names may be mentioned but not much else.

-Not until 1718 historically were noble titles and inferred wealth recorded.  The collection includes information before 1718 but that information is considered less reliable generally.

- Before 1718 there were documents that went unrecorded in these volumes in the first place.

-It is not well known but in the 18th century it was expected that a person would pay for this information to be recorded in the books. (I am not sure if the amount was considered to be expensive or not.)

Which means that just because what you're looking for isn't in these books does not mean it doesn't exist elsewhere and you should considered county or city archives, for instance.

There are 67 (Sixty-Seven) volumes of ROYAL BOOKS that go from the year 1527 to the year 1848.  Three and a half centuries is a long time.  (1848 is the year nobility was abolished but you can be sure that you will find notations of some person's noble status past that on some census records and in some church records, for sure.)   These 67 volumes were originally kept by the Hungarian Court in VIENNA. Royal Books for the years 1670-1867 originating in the TRANSYLVANIAN Chancellery are included in the collection.

At the beginning of the 18th century, in order to make the books more usable, an ALPHABETICAL NAME INDEX was added as an edit by the Chancellery.  Later Coats of Arms / Shields were also added for certain entries.  (These are often in color and are of high quality.  One wonders if nobles paid extra!)

In 1872 the archived volumes for the VIENNA Chancellery were moved to BUDAPEST, HUNGARY.  However in Vienna the King's ministry kept some books and thus began a 22 year negotiation before they also became part of the HUNGARIAN NATIONAL ARCHIVES!  Finally, in 1895, a LIST OF NAMES as an INDEX, appeared in the Royal Books that included nobles and other titled persons.  (Hoping to add to the usability of these documents, the archives decided to make other thematic index/ list books as well.)

Of special interest when you search HUNGARICANA is The ILLESY COLLECTION.  It is named after Janos Illesy who worked in the Archives of the Hungarian Chancellery.  In it there are 70 (Seventy) different documents that are focused on nobility, privileged, and rank of families and how those were achieved.  But that's not all.  In particular, Illesy made about 10,000 (ten thousand) cards (by surname) based on the 18th -19th century noble census and these cards can also work as an index.  The cards by surname include much useful information for genealogists and historians.  

A PROBLEM may be that the SURNAME has a good number of spelling variations.  NOTE THAT THE CARD SURNAMES are not in alphabetical order.  THEY ARE IN PHONETIC HUNGARIAN, not phonetic English, German, or any other language.

If the name is common, and so many Hungarian surnames are, you will have to look for the county as well as the surname.

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Friday, September 7, 2018

THESE 23 WORDS IN HUNGARIAN HAVE NO EQUIVALENT IN ENGLISH - FASCINATING


CATCH BUDAPEST 23 WORDS IN HUNGARIAN WE DON'T HAVE IN ENGLISH


VERY FASCINATING!

EXCERPT: 

8. Elmosolyodik (v.) – The Act of Starting to Smile (in a Really Subtle Way)


“Mosoly” is the word for smile, but to “elmosolyodni” is something a lot more subtle than a full, bright smile. It’s rather a microexpression forming around your lips which usually happens when you didn’t find something funny in the first place, but somehow still can’t help but smile at the end.

****each word has a translation in English and then the actual translation from Hungarian

Sunday, September 2, 2018

JANOS TELEGDI OLD HUNGARIAN ALPHABET

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This one has the phonetics .  Can you sound out your surname and write it with these old letters?

Thursday, August 30, 2018

WHEN FALL IS IN THE AIR

When I was a child we lived for summer.  It meant freedom from school, from the house, and from having to wear heavy clothing.  Somehow, though I know I got sun burned several times over the years, I began to tan easily.  Darkly.  Without lotions or oils.  Without trying.

Living in Southern California I don't need to try to get a tan.  It just happens being outdoors, without going to the beach.  

When I was a kid, the last weeks of summer, right before school started, were already cool in the mornings.  Maybe, right before the leaves fell, there would be something called "Indian summer."  (Why it was called that, I do not know)  This was a brief warming before it was no doubt autumn. Walking to the school bus stop, already I was wearing a sweater.  Soon it would be a hat and winter coat, gloves and boots.

Right before school started, when I was a kid, I used to start thinking about the school supply I wanted most: a new box of crayons.  The smell of those crayons - usually Crayolas - still reminds me of grade school. It was time to replace the tennis shoes - usually Keds - which at the time came in white, navy, or red, with a new pair.  Wearing them all summer mine were full of holes.  I would usually opt for a different color than the holey ones.  

People would see that their sunflower seeds and their garden vegetables in the back yard were done for the season. The earth began to smell different. They would sniff and say, "Fall is in the air." 

Fall is never in the air in Southern California.  Even before the too hot summers began a few years ago we had heat into October.  It didn't cool down too much until Thanksgiving.  People would spend Christmas at the beach.  In June there is something they call "June Gloom" which actually can happen in July too.  It's a time when the sky seems dull or shaded over.

But the other day I met someone from back east who had also transplanted here.  We both heard, when we first came, that after a while out blood would "thin" and then we'd start shivering when it was 50 or 60 degrees.  Neither of us believed this, but it happened.

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Sunday, August 26, 2018

ADATBAZISOK DATBASE ON LINE - NATIONAL ARCHIVES OF HUNGARY

ADATBAZISOK ON LINE - SEARCHABLE DATABASES - HUNGARIAN GENEALOGY and HISTORY

Offered in five languages including English, but I'll be honest with you that once you get to the original documents you'll be reading Hungarian, though you may want to put the page through a translator.  Includes parish registers, charters, local histories.  Give it a try and see if it brings up anything of interest!

Saturday, August 11, 2018

INVISIBLE BRIDGE by JULIE ORRINGER : MAGYAR AMERICAN BOOK REVIEW

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I promised myself  "No more World War II films or books."  There is just so much out there and I feel overexposed. Then I showed up an hour early for an event and near the waiting area was one of those little "libraries" that almost look like bird houses, stocked with free books from the neighborhood.  So I opened the little door and inside I found this book by Julie Orringer, and what was different is that it is a fictionalized account - that is to say an IMAGINED fiction based on her Hungarian Jewish Family's History.  On the covers and inside were such praises by various reviewers.  Could the book, published about 8 years ago, really be that good?
There is so much out there about World War II and the Holocaust, and frankly the Hungarian experience seems to be a rare event - as is, frankly, accounts by Christians in occupied countries such as Poland.  So, not knowing - until the end - that it was based on her Hungarian Jewish Family's History, I sunk into this book as I has not with any book in a long time.
Primarily it is a love story beginning in the late 1930's and her grandfather Andras' story.

Andras gets a rare scholarship to study architecture in Paris in the late 1930's, where he finds a lot of expatriot Hungarians living and falls in love with an older woman who has a devastating secret past. He has a brother who is going to study in Italy to be a doctor.  A brother who is supposed to inherit the family farm but would rather be a window dresser.  Their future experiences will make their early struggles for survival while young students seem easy.


In Paris Andras and other Jewish students stick together, though some come from wealth. The scholarship is good, but he still has to earn a living and so he works and lives in a freezing walk up. Some of the people he trusted in Paris prove to have their own agendas when they find themselves back in Hungary, unable to get the Visas to stay in other countries, their dreams abandoned.

The brothers are called up to support the Hungarian Army in Jewish only troops that are worked like slaves. There are brutal commanders and their are kind ones; does everyone allow their personal beliefs to dictate how they will treat others while in their official capacity?

As I turned the pages and read the story, my anxiety increased, as the characters lived increasingly limited lives.  As with any Holocaust/ World War II story, since most readers probably already know a little or a lot about how bad it was, there is and is not something new.

I value the greater understanding of Hungarian World War II and Holocaust history that I have now from Julie Orringer's story.

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Sunday, August 5, 2018

THE SONG OF THE BUTTERFLY



From the video on YouTube:

While attending Everness Festival in Hungary we were invited by artist Istvan Sky Kék Égto to visit his Surya Sangíta Asram. There four beautiful souls met together and by improvising created the musical adventure you are witnessing now. Music made by Collaboration of: Istvan Sky Kék Ég, Estas Tonne, Pablo Arellano, Indrė Kuliešiūtė. Video made by Geri Dagys

Monday, July 30, 2018

A GUIDE TO HISTORY OF REFORM PROTESTANT CHURCH in SLOVAKIA- ZEMPLEN COUNTY

http://www.refzem.eu/ REFORM CHURCHES ZEMPLEN / SLOVOKIA  translates to English on Google.

I found this site searching for historical information on Nagy Geres and Kis Geres.  I found it to be a fascinating site because it has story of various village and town churches that were in Zemplen County, Hungary that are also in Slovakia now.  I was able to learn that possibly a town fire may be the reason why I may not be able to get the marriage and birth records I've been periodically checking for through FamilySearch.com, Ancestry.com, etc, for a few years. 

One never knows if possibly a transcription project has stalled or if the records were never filmed for microfilm or moved to databases. Possibly the records are in Hungary or Slovakia.

So let me explain that I have often been accused of "extreme genealogy," and that I have research tactics most people do not or would not even think of doing.

What I did years ago was read all the records for 200 years of a certain Catholic church, where I found a second marriage in the Catholic church and the marriages of children in the Catholic church, but no evidence of a first marriage or the grandparent's birth in the same Church.

It was convincing to me (and still is) that this was a Catholic family.  But as there is also a Reform church in that town - and the records for it seem not to be available, I had to think "well MAYBE they were not baptized Catholic or married Catholic."

What I did that was extreme was keep track of who was living in certain house numbers.  I learned that there probably wasn't anyone from this branch of the family living in the village before 1865.  And so they were either Protestant or living elsewhere.

Living in the same dwelling are a couple with the same surname but with a 16 year age difference, which to me means that the person 16 years older is probably not the father. And due to his name and age, I would suspect he was on a 2nd marriage and was a first son in a family.  So maybe an uncle?  But I can't find this couple married in any records available in databases.

Now that I learned that one of the villages mentioned on a naturalization had a fire about then, I'm thinking that they moved due to that fire and the records went up in flames.

Luckily the brick wall may not have tumbled, but I have so many more lines to follow!

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Wednesday, July 25, 2018

PEONIES GROW WILD IN SOUTHERN HUNGARY

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I read that the peonies that grow wild in Southern Hungary (and some other countries with similar regional weather) are red, but when I looked for images of them, there were so many red flowers posted!  This image that is probably Russian reminds me of the one peony plant we had in our garden. I love peonies more than roses, for they have no thorns and the perfume hasn't been bred out of them for commercial purposes.

If you have any genuine red Hungarian peony photos you'd like to share, let me know!

Monday, July 23, 2018

AMERICANS FOR HUNGARY CLUB

 

AMERICANS FOR HUNGARY CLUB  "We are dedicated to improving relations between the USA and Hungary, through charitable projects, cultural exchange, trade, and bringing Hungarian innovations to market.

Saturday, July 21, 2018

GARDEN CROW


Tending the Garden

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Johnny's Garden Crow may be the work of artist
Leslie Brooke (1862-1940)


Saturday, July 14, 2018

ON HUNGARIAN BARONS - A GENEALOGY QUESTION FOR MY READERS

PETER F. SUGAR is Professor Emeritus of History and International Studies at the University of Washington.
PETER HANAK is Senior Research Advisor at the Instit6ute of History of the Hungarian Academy of Sciences.  TIBOR FRANK is Associate Professor History at Eotvos Lorand University in Budapest. 

These men wrote a book on Hungarian History and on Page 108 of it, it says that after 1620 a new BARON was rare.  That there were 70-80 families that made up the aristocracy as it had been easily for hundreds of years.  These families were anti-Hapsburgs.

The book also says that after the 1680's the courts tried to raise up more families.

I'm looking for information on ARRANGED MARRIAGES and the role that class would play back in those days.  I have an ancestor who received SPECIAL DISPENSATION from the Catholic Church to marry.

Do any of you readers know where I would find the REASON WHY?  I suspect there was a class difference, but what reasons would the CHURCH find it necessary to give permission?

Saturday, July 7, 2018

SUSPICIOUS OF THAT BIG AMERICAN SMILE?

THE ATLANTIC : WHY DO AMERICANS SMILE SO MUCH



EXCERPT: It turns out that countries with lots of immigration have historically relied more on nonverbal communication. Thus, people there might smile more.

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Are you one of those people who finds people who don't smile suspicious?
Have you gone into big debt to perfect your own big smile?
I find that when I am relaxed my smile just naturally forms, and I don't have to grease my teeth to make it comfortable.

Wednesday, June 27, 2018

THE GUARDIAN : FORTY WORDS OF LOVE IN HUNGARIAN  by  Charlotte Mendelson

EXCERPT: Yet, even as this puzzle was partially solved, another presented itself: the world's most impossible language. Hungarian, as everybody knows, is extraordinarily difficult. Its sole linguistic link is to Finno-Ugric; Finnish inflections sound Hungarian, if you can't hear actual words. On the rare occasions when I meet other Hungarians' grandchildren, disbelief in our absurd ancestral language unites us. For the record, the best Hungarian word means central heating: központi fütés, pronounced kers-pontifutaysh; boldog születésnapot – bull-dog soo-lertaishnop (happy birthday) comes a close second. I am as astonished as you are by the spelling.

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Macska – motch-ko (cat)
Despite my linguistic ignorance I am, in one word only, bilingual, even actively Hungarian. Whenever I see a cat, I think "hello motchko", although my grandparents lived in a flat and did not, as far as I know, like cats.
Köszönöm szépen – kers-enem say-pen (thank you very much)
My grandmother was fantastically generous: not only with money, and visits to "poor sick boys" of 86, and accommodation for acquaintances' nieces' schoolfriends' visiting neighbours, but also in smaller ways. She went nowhere without multi-purpose presents: handkerchiefs, spectacle-cases, "sweeties", small Czech crystal animals. Every milkman or, horrifyingly, teacher, was rewarded; on holiday she left a brooch or a bracelet "for the chambermaid" beside her bed. When she died we found a vast supply of gifts, awaiting distribution.
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I enjoyed this personal experience article by the granddaughter of Hungarians in London.

Sunday, June 24, 2018

BERRY PIE SEASON




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My mom made the most wonderful pastry crust using basic materials and rolling the dough.  She used a product that you rarely see these days - Crisco - which was animal fat. But not too often.  We rarely purchased berries to make pie.  Instead, when children, we'd roam an old apple orchard which also has some long forgotten black berry and strawberry patches.  Compared to the berries you see at market today, these were tiny.  We were usually able to pick enough to make one good pie.

Saturday, June 23, 2018

ATTILA - THIS IS WHAT HE LOOKED LIKE?

SOFTPEDIA - ATTILA's REAL FACE

Yet another contribution to the controversy of races, languages, and origins of the Hungarian people's original tribal roots and a question of Whiteness.  Be prepared to see several images, and realize we may never know...

Wednesday, June 20, 2018

ELIZABETH DEE GALLERY - FEATURED HUNGARIAN ADVANT GUARD


ART NEWS - ELIZABETH DEE HUNGARY EYES ADVANT GUARD


EXCERPT:Little-known history of the Hungarian avant-garde in the 1960s and ’70s will come in for new focus next month at Elizabeth Dee Gallery in New York. Opening May 2 and running through until August 12,  (2017) “With the Eyes of Others: Hungarian Artists of the Sixties and Seventies” will feature more than 100 works by 30 artists in what organizers are calling the first show of such scale in the United States to survey art made in the oppressive authoritarian atmosphere of communist-era Hungary.

“If you were paying very close attention, which most people wouldn’t have been, these Hungarian artists have been beginning to be more noticed in recent years,” said András Szántó, the Hungarian-born, New York-based guest curator of the show. “I wouldn’t say it’s esoteric, but you need to have peripheral vision to have noticed.”

**** This is old news however the article is interesting and so are the photos so go to that link!

Saturday, May 26, 2018

HUNTING ACROSS THE DANUBE : MAGYAR AMERICAN BOOK REVIEW



author: Peter Lewis Horn


First, I admit that I have not read this book word for word as I usually do, that I scanned it looking for locations I'd know from a map or genealogy search.  I am not a hunter.  If I had to kill an animal myself in order to eat I'd probably do so in the insanity of starvation. Then I would feel myself to be an animal as well. But I'm no radical vegan. I'm convinced my personal body needs meat due to a foray into food-combining vegetarianism that left me protein starved. I say this because those of you who are hunters - of wild boar, wolf, pheasant, stag, roebuck, mountain bear, and the CAPERCAILLE OFTHECARPATHIANS (What's that?!) - those of you who go after the few beast who've managed to live to an enormous old age - those of you into Couples Hunts, Ladies Hunts, THE KING'S SHOOT - who perhaps hunt in places where killing for sport is seen as a necessary culling of the limited wilderness - Those of you who go to Romania, Hungary and Transylvania, Lake Balaton - WILL GET INTO THIS BOOK!


It has blow by blow accounts of mud, rain, the obstacles of climbing and tracking, what takes cunning, as well as photo ops with dead animals and trophy racks.

Hint: Sheepherders will rat out a bear.

It's not my scene but maybe you'll want to read this book to self discover if it's yours.


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Saturday, May 19, 2018

FIRST LADY MELANIA TRUMP IS THE MORE APPROACHABLE ONE

When the Trumps first became President of the United States and First Lady, I believe it was our President who said that the Kennedy White House - JFK and Jackie - would be role models.  I found that interesting and as Jackie prioritized her children and so has Melania I get it.  I feel for Melania at this point for so very many reasons but she has finally made children her focus as a special effort during her First Ladyhood.  And if I had to meet this couple socially or for any reason, I would find Melania the more approachable one because I think she is actually the more genuine one.

But does the JFK Whit eHouse inspiration include a promiscuous cheating President?

I feel for her because she is married to a President whose tenure in office seems questionable mostly because so very many heads have rolled.  I would not want to chance working for such a person or in such a situation and I fear accepting work from him is basically asking for career ruination.  I feel the instability of staff not only makes getting work done difficult but gives other countries the impression we are a weak country.

Yet Trump fans have told me I am wrong.  I am told that China understand a mogul with multiple wives and families, that China gets trump.  I am told that his behavior overall and threats of military might have scared North Korea and so now they'll stop the nuclear testing and get with some world peace.  I am also told that Trump really isn't a womanizer and Melania is sure of his love for him; this one I debate.

Just airing some thoughts amidst my research on the old nobility of the developing country of Hungary....



Saturday, May 12, 2018

ADATBAZISUKONLINE from HUNGARY - NATIONAL ARCHIVES OF HUNGARY GENEALOGY DATABASES

ADATBAZISUK DATABASE LINK - NATIONAL ARCHIVES OF HUNGARY


I wish I could say that there's a translator for the actual documents embedded in the site, but for now you can go to the categories in five different languages including English as linked above.


I've added this to my GENEALOGY RESEARCH LINKS ON THE SIDEBAR

Saturday, May 5, 2018

HUNGARIAN SURNAMES and GIVEN NAMES and JEWISHNESS : GENEALOGY

I was researching a woman noble named Judit Thuranszky de Turik et Komjathna and some other historical persons who are probably linked in some way to this area and who I have reason to think may have been Jewish, at least hundreds of years ago.  Perhaps it's that I once spent hundreds of hours reading 200 years plus of one particular Catholic church records of marriages and found one person - a man who was the town pharmacist - who was listed as Jewish.  Perhaps it's because I know that in Hungary people who were living on the land of a noble who became Lutheran or Reformed  or Evangelical, or some other religion, tended to feel the pressure to follow there - and back during the Counter Reformation.  Perhaps it's because that the Moslem Ottoman empire was in place for so long in the territory that is Hungary that basically, I think of Hungary as a place where there has been a lot of religious upheaval. Or that as a genealogist I'm often hearing "Jewish Rumors" that someone's grandparent said that was the family's roots.  Or that DNA tests showed this was so.  Or that the Hungarians were Nazis or that they were actually more tolerant of having Jewish people in the country.  Or was that only along the grape growing and wine trade regions? Maybe even the "Jewish Rumors" that are always around about Princess William of Wales a.k.a Kate Middleton makes me wonder just how many generations of living as Christians does a family have to be to prove otherwise.


When it comes to finding genealogy archival documents, basically from the late 1700's Catholic churches in smaller towns and villages were keeping the records of marriages both "mixed" and of non parishioners because there was no mandate for civil registrations.  This was practical because sometimes the priest at the church was one of the few who could read and write and also because so many people lived in wooden structures in villages and on estates but it was only the church or the residences of wealthy people who were made of stone that might better withstand a fire. In the larger cities where there were separate structures for the Reformed church, the Catholic church, and the Jewish Synagogue, records were kept individually - at least after that structure was built.  Still, I have frequently checked these even when not expecting someone to be on them, just in case.


In all the records I have read, the name Judit is fairly rare, and to me a "giveaway" that the person in Jewish.  So I found an attempt to address this question by someone named Kinga Frojimovics on the JewishGen site.  To me her sampling seems limited and this is originally from 2003 but it's probably still worth the read. This article gives the dates for surname adoption.
JEWISH GEN - KINGA FROJIMOVICS - JEWISH NAMING CUSTOMS HUNGARY


As a comparison, when I do American genealogy I sometimes come across families in which "Old Testament" names have been given to the children but I find them going to the Baptist or another church and I don't find them buried in Jewish graveyards.  There are many names that are "Old Testament" that have been popular for Americans at different time periods: consider the names Sharon and Deborah for instance. But in Hungary you can encounter naming patterns that are far less about the parents just liking the name, and more about honoring the birth order among the common villagers, or ancestors with nobles being given multiple names at baptisms that seem to be less ordinary.


As for surnames and titles, I think things get more mysterious for us 21st century researchers who are trying to understand how different people lived and thought way back when, as well as make our way through those charters and other manuscripts that mention important families, even when on our knees in thanks when we find one that is very legible and neatly written though in Old Hungarian; to some extent we take the word of the translator.


One article I read said that Turanism was the name given to those who were sure that Hungarians had Asian roots.  Well, was this family the Turanszke's especially devoted to that belief?  Was this perhaps because they themselves knew that their ancestors came from Asia?


Anyone wishing to give an opinion?

Sunday, April 1, 2018

WHAT'S IN THAT PIPE THEY'RE SMOKING?

Image result for public domain vintage easter
Searching for a vintage public domain image for Easter, I came across this
ridiculously funny image of three rabbits smoking violets.  Does anyone know if
smoking violets makes one high?

Wednesday, March 21, 2018

MY DOG and ME : A COLD and STORMY WINTER

As anyone who reads my blog knows, I have a small dog that I love and have had many adventures with as we take walks together.  She is quite the sentient being, and seems to love life so much, though I'm a morning person, there is no sleeping in when she is raring to go outside. 

Over the last few months we've been walking in nature in less citified areas of Southern California, closer to the beach areas, where the day begins fogged in and this winter season has been colder and stormier than previous winters.  We await glorious profusions of native plants and wild flowers - brilliant orange and golden poppies are beginning to bloom -  because of these rains - and she seems to have become more lively in the cooler temperatures.  We have experienced extreme heat and dust in drought and last summer I was carrying her to the grassy areas because the driveway and sidewalks were too hot for a dog's paws, but I also thought she was aging, slowing down.  Now I think the heat had been getting to her more than I thought, so I hope we will continue our walks in nature and near the beaches, as the exercise is good for both of us.
However, I must say that I am looking forward to spring and warmer temperatures because I have been more bundled up than usual.  I long to wear sandals and dresses or shorts without hose and to feel freer in my movements.


Saturday, March 3, 2018

Thursday, March 1, 2018

YAD VASHEM : TESTIMONIALS FROM THE HOLOCAUST : A SEARCHABLE DATABASE THAT INCLUDES RIGHTEOUS GENTILE

Try searching for a town in Hungary and see what comes up. Volunteer driven, because of the Internet we can all use YAD VASHEM'S searchable database to learn more about our family history or history in general.

Click on the title of this post to link directly!

Link update December 2023 https://www.yadvashem.org/index.html

Saturday, February 17, 2018

NEGLECTING THE HUNGARIAN LINEAGE ? CLAIMING TO BE GERMAN?

As someone who is actively interested in genealogy, I could not fail to research my Hungarian line.  But I've met some people who neglect their Hungarian lineage when they are researching because they are ashamed to admit to being even part Hungarian.  To be fair, this isn't limited to Hungarian-Americans. 

I've met people who dismiss their Polish line or their Slovak line.

One ex-friend of mine told me her children were "Germans," which is what she told her co-workers and employers, oh and all those people she met when she joined Young Republicans. But in fact, her children were mostly German from contributions from her side and her husband's side on their families.  She was actually from German, Hungarian, and French heritage.  Her husband was German and Swedish.

Now if you go back a ways, you are probably going to run into some Germans who went to other countries.  Germany LET PEOPLE OUT OF GERMANY without requiring that they give up being Germans.  Those who left did so because they were not in line to inherit the family farm, economic reasons, work.  They settled in other countries, such as Hungary, and over generations kept to German culture.  Some of them went back when Romania in recent history was not receptive to their stay.

The best reason I've ever heard for not doing your Hungarian line genealogy is that you fear it will be difficult because of the language.  I'm not going to say that it isn't challenging at times, but many documents are not in Hungarian but are in Latin, or German, or another language.  Avoiding genealogy because what you want isn't in English?  You can get research help from experts in the United States or in Hungary.  You can certainly use on-line translators...

I've met people who dismiss their Polish line or their Slovak line.

If you just want to monkey around before you commit to doing  your Hungarian-American research, check out the Hungarian National Archives on line!  Look through postcards, art, documents that were originally written hundreds of years ago!


Wednesday, February 7, 2018

GRADESCHOOL VALENTINES STILL BRING UP MEMORIES OF LITTLE GIRL CRUSHES

I was very lucky to have a mom who scrapbooked greeting cards I received as a child.  These scrapbooks are mostly stored away but the kind of thing that you would want to run out with if you were warned to evacuate your home due to pending mudslide or fire.


Although in my grade school is was not mandatory for every child to give every other child in the class a Valentine, and nor do I think that should be mandated, it was exciting when it came time for the big box covered in wrapping paper with a mail slot in the top to be opened and the Valentine's distributed.

Though only 6 or 7 at the time, I knew there were one or two or three people I hoped I would get a Valentine from.  Oh the art was too cute and so was the humor, but one flipped over the card to see if anything besides a signature had been written.  Even the signature was so important!


These days I tend to think that Valentine's Day, as are many holidays, is overblown with materialism and have to's.  I long for the days when a Valentine was precious and meant something special - that there was more sincerity involved.


Maybe this is because I recently reencountered an adult woman who I've always basically liked, but who I remember as being a bit over the top and at ease with telling people she loves them "very much."  If actions speak louder than words, such effusive gushes of adoration must sub in for the fact that she rarely has time for most people.  She is busy with work, and going out with her small inner circle after work, saving herself for big gatherings where she can encounter a lot of people, do some sharing, and make such declarations.
It's not that she dislikes you or is hiding hatred.  It's just so insincere!


I think overall our society is encouraging us to blur liking someone into loving them.


Liking someone does not require you send them a Valentine!


P.S. I love my dog but am not baking her a Doggie Valentine Cupcake full of liver!



Saturday, February 3, 2018

Monday, January 29, 2018

A HUNGARIAN SURNAME is ALL IT TAKES TO REMEMBER YOUR HUNGARIANESS

I am reminded of my Hungarianess every time someone stumbles over my familial surname.
To be honest, I understand!
In Hungarian the name sounds so different than it seems spelled when you are an English speaker. 
Also as of three generations ago when my Hungarians came to America, they were also involved in various pronunciations and name changes.
As I've come to understand it, this also has to do with the fact that though united by religion, some of them married Germans heritage people here in the United States and some of them married Slovak heritage people here in the United States.  (And depending on the dates, some could say they were from Romania, or Yugoslavia!)  And I think the language spoken in the home as a first language has a lot to do with it.


Long ago when I began this blog I promised that I would avoid invading any family member's privacy so that's all I have to say about that, but I wanted my Hungarian and Hungarian-American readers to think about this.


Do you, like I do, often explain that your surname is Hungarian?
Do you tell people what it means to help them get it?

Friday, January 12, 2018

GETTING UP TO SPEED FOR THE NEW YEAR

This past holiday season was a bit unusual for me because I joined up with a relatives huge family celebration that included new traditions they had adopted over the years and since I'd last seen them all.  This included a birthday cake for Jesus that included candles, the children singing "Happy Birthday" to Jesus, and one of them blowing the candles out: of course this included the trick candles that refuse to blow out the first and second try.

(Seems no one is ever concerned about breath on cake tops being germ-filled!)

My memory of this family was that everyone watched the Pope say Mass from Rome on a cable station and then opened presents.  My memory was also of there being turkey, ham, and lasagna, plus many platters and tins full of desert cookies and cakes.  Well, there was no watching the Pope say Mass and they had gotten into healthier and more minimalistic holiday eating, but one of the daughters spends an afternoon making several of grandma's cookie recipes so was carrying on some of the tradition.

About a week before the holiday we went to the cemetery to decorate the graves for Christmas, totally new to me.  The Italian branch of the family had also put photos of the person in the grave on the gravestones.  The extreme expensive of burial these days has me quite concerned.  I don't think I will be.  I'm feeling pretty sure I'll be cremated and there is a spot on earth where I would like a simple cardboard box of ashes to be buried.  When we got to this cemetery though I was surprised to see so many families out decorating the burials, and when I saw the burial for a child that included an entire decorated fake Christmas tree I felt some tears come to my eyes.

Soon after this visit I and everyone else got sick - be it allergies, sinus, the flu, a virus, an infection, we were all coughing, hacking, exhausted, and sleeping too much or up all night.

So I'm still trying to step on the gas and get up to full speed for the New Year - 2018!

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