Showing posts with label Culture and Society in Hungary. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Culture and Society in Hungary. Show all posts

Sunday, June 21, 2026

FATHER'S DAY ??? MOTHER'S DAY ???


In Hungary, Fathers Day (Apák Napja) is the third Sunday in June, which is June 21, 2026. Today!  It coincides with International Father's Day.

Mother's Day (Anyák Napja) is also celebrated, the first Sunday of May, so the dates changes. In the United States it's celebrated on the second Sunday of May. (This is also true of Canada.)

In Hungary, people are not as materialistic as some are in the West. Gifts that are appreciated are appropriate flowers (often seasonal) original poems, traditional songs, nice foods, and little gifts.

The holiday origins are credited to Americans and the United States. Now Mother's and Father's Day are celebrated all over the world, but on different dates; there is no International Mother's Day.

International Women's Day on March 8 is celebrated in Eastern European and Balkan nations, such as Albania, which combine Mother's Day with International Women's Day.






Wednesday, November 12, 2025

GOT A QUESTION FOR YOU! HOW DO YOU CELEBRATE A HUNGARIAN-AMERICAN THANKSGIVING HOLIDAY?

 HOW DO YOU CELEBRATE A HUNGARIAN-AMERICAN THANKSGIVING HOLIDAY?

You may be a recent immigrant to the United States or a few generations away from an ancestor who came, but, if you're reading MAGYAR-AMERICAN, there's a good chance you claim some Hungarian heritage.

And if so, how do you celebrate THANKSGIVING with some Hungarian cultural inclusion?

It's my idea that including Hungarian recipes - food - is what many people include!  

Leave me a comment!

Friday, September 12, 2025

BALATONUDVARI HEART SHAPED TOMBSTONES and ARTIST ILONA KERERU

Yes, believe it or not, there is a graveyard in the village of Balatonudvari (near Lake Balaton) where the tombstones are all "heart shaped."  (Some say shaped like an apple, but perhaps the point of the heart is in the ground?)  See the good photographs.

MEDIUM : HEART SHAPED TOMBSTONES of BALATONUDVARI by Alexandra Palconi 

Excerpt: "THE DEAD HEART TURNS INTO STONE, TOO.  FIRST IT BECOMES DUST< THEN IT TURNS INTO STONE."

Of course, there is also a local legend about these monuments; apparently, a local handyman convinced the villagers of Balatonudvari to order heart- shaped tombstones because "the dead hearts turn into stone, too.  First it becomes dust, then it turns into stone."  There are rumors that the last of the heart-shaped tombstones stands at the handyman's grave.  The creepy thing is, according to the same legend, he even engraved his own tombstone.

STEVEN FRIENDMAN GALLERY : ART BY ILONA KESEWRU INSPIRED BY THE HEART SHAPED TOMBSTONES


Saturday, May 10, 2025

XPAT LOOP : TAKE A LOOK EVEN IF YOU DON'T PLAN TO LIVE IN HUNGARY!

XPATLOOP.COM 

This is a VERY commercial site, but I decided to post a link to it anyway, knowing that I do not necessarily recommend the businesses advertising on it, because there is some good free information of interest to those who may be tourists now but considering residency in Hungary, in particular Budapest.

Christmas markets, charity events, rental cars, INTERVIEWS.....  

Wednesday, March 27, 2024

AMERICAN HUNGARIAN FOUNDATION : DIGITALIZING THEIR ARCHIVES : NEEDS DONATIONS FOR THE PROJECT COLLECT CONSERVE CELEBRATE!

AMERICAN HUNGARIAN FOUNDATION ORG Located in New Jersey

Since the 1950's and recognizing that the North Eastern United States has had a great number of Hungarian heritage persons, the American Hungarian Foundation is digitizing their archives and needs your help.

Sunday, March 10, 2024

VERONIKA SCHANDL'S ESSAY "A ROSE BY ANY OTHER NAME" FOCUSES ON CONTEMPORARY HUNGARIAN SHAKESPEARE THEATRICAL ADAPTATIONS

THEATRON : AN ESSAY ON SHAKESPEARE THEATER IN HUNGARY 

This is quite the literary essay!

Veronika Schandl (Pázmány Péter Catholic University, Budapest): “A rose by any other name”. Contemporary Hungarian Shakespeare Adaptations on Stage and in Cyberspace

Friday, March 17, 2023

GYPSY SONGS FROM HUNGARY


Gypsy or Gipsie - Romany - Romani - or Rom
I enjoyed listening to this video while I cooked...
It's from Traditional Music Channel

Sunday, March 27, 2022

LEARN MORE ABOUT HUNGARIAN SOCIETY and CULTURE at HUNGARIAN NATIONAL DIGITAL ARCHIVES including HUNGARIAN JEWISH CULTURE

MANDACORE HUNGARY : ENGLISH VERSION   This links to an essay on personal cleanliness but there are also many other articles about how Hungarian people did things in the past, such how they made soap to how they did baby care, such as no strollers or prams but a mom could take a cradle into the fields, that are translated into English. We can learn a lot about how our great grandparents and ancestors lived in those days before houses had indoor plumbing and toilets. Men and boys used a tub first, then the women and children, then the baby - which is where we got the saying about not throwing the baby out with the bathwater.  My sensibility is that the baby might have needed to be first! I know soap can sanitize but I also know that going too long without bathing can mean infections. (Lately some Hollywood stars have been commenting about how they do not personally bathe too often.)

You can also do a search and many interesting things come up in Hungarian, such as booklets about places that were probably intended for tourists to various cities and regions that include images as well as statistical work. I'm finding that searching for the region or town is helpful. 

Of interest to Jewish Hungarian ancestry are lists of tradespeople who are keeping the Sabbath and other books of lists of members.

Follow me.  First I searched for Abauj  (Now Abauj-Torno-Zemplen administrative district.  MANDADB HU - Searching for Abauj

This is page 2 and we see  MAGYRORSZAG SZOMBATTARTO .....  Directory of Hungarian traders, tradesmen, and manufacturers keeping Sabbath.... It was published out of Budapest and contains many communities.

Click on it and the page is opening to a large view of the cover and more information such as the date of 1927 and that this booklet was put together by rabbis.

To the left under the larger image of the cover is a little icon that says DOCUMENT.  We click on that and it opens a PDF file showing the content.

Now this is the tricky part, if you can't read Hungarian, because it would be nice to cut and past text into the Google Translator...

However if you have Jewish Hungarian roots in Abauj you are probably focused on finding certain surnames or individuals.  You can probably take a screen shot or download the file for future use.

I find it interesting that such books were made.  The intention was so that members of a community who were traveling or wanted to make deals could find persons like themselves. 

There existed at the time a tradition of hiring a Christian person to come to the house on the Sabbath to do some of the essential work, so that the Jewish person could observe the Sabbath religiously by not doing work.  An example would be to light the hearth fire so that the house would stay warm.  Animals needed to be fed.  And so on. My understanding is that the Sabbath began at sundown on Friday and ended at sundown on Saturday. The women would prepare the food and do as much as possible to finish their work before Sundown.  Therefore, on Sunday, when the Christians had their Sabbath, the Jewish people could be back at work, having had a good rest.  A few years back I had neighbors who still observed this Sabbath.  He was a lawyer and she was a nurse; they considered it to be family time and study time.

As you see on this list, there are many surnames that most Americans think of as Jewish or German Jewish.  The history on this is that most Jews who came into Hungary came in from the North, Poland - Galicia, and there too they had surnames that appear to be German Jewish with some using Polish or Ukrainian surnames.  Some of them did change their surnames to be Hungarian or Hungarian translations in meaning.  On this list you see it is men and men who are using a Hungarian given name.  This is not the same as their "Jewish name."  It is a Civil name that one might coordinate with the Civil registration of births, marriages, and deaths.

When it come to the trades, there were Jewish people who changed their names to reflect their trade.  Therefore some trade names have both Christian and Jewish people with those names.  Schreiber- clerk. 

However, in 1927, post World War I and prior to Word War II and the Holocaust, there were thriving Jewish Communities in Hungary, and especially in "wine country,"  So a booklet like this is a between wars moment in time.

So let's page through.  We can do this by clicking on the individual page icons to the left.

I notice:

Csillag  Emanuel  - Hungarian surname meaning Star

Zipszer Edy :  Reference to the Germans of Szepes county called Zipszers.

Several surnames with Low : Reference to Lowe, now Lviv, Ukraine.

Page icon 7 : I note that a woman or two is being named.

titkar - secretary Piroska Fleishmann

társelnök - co-chair : Abelesz Emilne - the ne means "the wife of" Emil Abelsz


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Tuesday, September 28, 2021

A THRIFT STORE FIND : A HUNGARIAN BEER MUG WITH THE IMAGE OF A CATHEDRAL ON IT?

I was in a thrift store and a man got into the line to pay who was just delighted because he found TWO items that were Hungarian.  One was a book.  The other was one of those ceramic beer mugs - a big one - that had the image of a Catholic cathedral in Hungary on it.  This was missing a top.  We laughed about this.  The idea that a tourist would visit a Catholic church and buy a beer mug there.

I tend to think of Hungary as a WINE COUNTRY but certainly there are beer drinkers there, just as there are in the United States. Is it the German influence?  



Monday, March 29, 2021

SAN FRANCISCO A HUNGARIAN AMERICAN HOT SPOT


It's been a while since I posted about Hungarian - American clubs and I'm not sure how I missed this one. Hungarian Heritage Foundation of the San Francisco Bay Area is a group so welcoming all you have to do or be is interested. They have a website that will take you to a PDF file. They are ambitious. 

hacsa.org

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What does it mean to you to have Hungarian Heritage?

Sunday, September 15, 2019

Monday, October 25, 2010

THERE IS NO HALLOWEEN IN HUNGARY

There is no Halloween in Hungary...  But of course most Americans do celebrate this holiday beginning in grade school where the cycle of Holidays is usually played out througout the year.  For some this is an opportunity to wear a mask and costume and play at some alter-ego for a while.  Usually this is playful and silly and there is no harm in it at all.

Personally, I like the pumpkins and gourds, the harvest festival aspect of the American Holiday.   I also like the spiritual aspect of it, the idea that at this time of year this world you can celebrate or communicate with your ancestors. 

What I can do without is all the fright and gore,  the Haunted Houses, the way this celebration has been perverted into something evil rather than reverent.  There is no good reason as I see it for EVIL to be associated with this holiday or time of the year, as if evil doesn't exist all the time.  I don't think the celebration of ancestors or trying to communicate with them (this is usually through psychicism) is evil either.  For most of us, going through the family album or old scrapbooks is good enough.